takut kepada makhluq, SYIRIK namanya

never asssume, always ask!

1) sometime to let someone wonders till he ask, is a way to train people around you, to ask. 

2) once ur called a wife, be very2 gentle in training and be very2 patient. pray hard to Allah those words u cant afford to utters, and let him beautifully convey d message for u to his heart. U may convey the words but He surely d one determines d messages.

3) must be able to disagree with a smile. agree to disagree.

strongly believe in this.. and i know o Allah, u'll guide my steps in dis path, insyaAllah